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So ive been dating my wonderful boyfriend whom ive been dating a little over 2 years is injured and has been for 3 years. He was hurt in a motocross accident in which he split his liver, fractured his back, shreded his gall bladder, broken a few of his ribs, chipped one of the disks in his back and he broke his shoulder. He had to stay in Harbor veiw for 87 days and ever since then hes been in and out of the hospital and he currently has a tube in his liver that is draining the bile the isnt going into the right bile ducts. I am so frustrated with this whole situation. I want all of this shit done with and over but it just doesnt seem like its going to happen. I know at this point in time I need to be that rock that he can cling onto, but it just gets so hard sometimes because Its so overwhelming to see someone who you love with all of ou heart in so much pain and in and out of the hospital. My heart is just aching and I want all this to stop. My baby loves riding bmx and I would like nothing more for us than to get our own house and he can go out riding anytime he wants and then we can stay together every night and just be happy and in total love. Ive never felt anything for anyone close to how I feel for who im with now. Everything (besides the fact hes hurt) is so perfect and I just pray to god that everything gets better soon and he can live a normal life. I just want this stress gone

It hurts so bad to know that someone you love with every inch of your body is in so much pain they cant even stand it and the medicine they are given to help them feel better doesnt work. Its horrible to just sit there when the person you are madly in love with is suffering and all the while you know there is absolutley nothing you can do. Every fiber in my body longs to help him and unfortunatley its the last thing I can do. Things just feel so helpless sometimes. I want to know is there a light at the end of this tunnel becase I sometimes wonder. I just want these stupid over payed bastard doctors to get off their ass and help my baby. If things dont change soon i might just have to pull a John Q and get some results! Im so sick of asshole nurses that dont give a shit and half ass doctors. three fucking years is more than enough time for pain and suffering. So much was lost of his childhood. He missed out on so much and what hurts is he cant get it back. I just wish I had a magic wand to wave over him and make his liver better and just cure everything. All I want is for my little darling to feel better and be able to do what he wants. My dream is to one day be able to see him do whatever he wants whenever he wants to and at the end of the day he can come home to me and we can be our happy, crazy and in love selves. I love him so much and I would do anything ANYTHING for him hes my everything. My bestfriend,my lover, my confidont, my shoulder to cry on, someone I can always count on and the one I want to be with forever.

Don’t you hate it when you are dating a guy and he had these certain rules that he expects out of you and certain things that he wants you to do for him but if you have some rules or expectations for them they get all pissy and irritated like ” what you don’t trust me?!” or “Why I’m not your pet?”. I think that it is so ridiculous! Why is it that they can have these rules for us that they expect us to do, but we cant expect certain things out of them. These double standards are ridiculous and if it keeps continuing I’m going to start doing the opposite of the things that I usually do to try to keep a relationship running smoothly and try something like in the movie How To Loose a Guy in 10 Days. HA and if the man can stick it out than that’s how I know hes a keeper! Has anyone else experienced this in their life? And if so what would you do to put this inequality to a stop?

Why is it that when women do certain things in a relationship some men freak out… but they do the same thing!!! For instance when men say you cant talk to other men and yet when they go out with their friends your hear all these about girls who came up and talked to them or hugged them.. that makes me SO mad because if I’m out and about and a man approaches me and i tell my man about it.. oh man it is the end of the world! Suddenly I am trying to find a new man or I’m trying to hook up with someone else. This makes me so upset because I understand that if a girl approaches him and he didn’t initiate the interaction that it was her fault and I just shrug it off. But he cant seem to do that for me. Does this ever happen to anyone else? or is it just me and my insecure man?